Its very normal for men to like women..vice versa and some other sexual preferences too!
Some men alas cant control their urges for having a woman in their arms.They grow so so very desperate that they end up catching hold of a female and do the unthinkable.
Soft targets always on the radar.They do not even spare children.This recent rise in rape cases..well I'd rather say emergence of registered rape cases makes us feel so helpess;makes us feel so insecure..there is this constant fear of something untoward happening to the females who have a part in our lives.I am a part of the Indian community on orkut..and everday..mind you everyday there is a thread stating that a woman or a minor was raped in xyz city.
Yes,it is a matter of great concern but people never could react.All they could do is post an angry smiley and condemn the happenings.
Well even the rapists could do that haha..
The trauma which the rape victim goes through is unimaginable..and no its not about the 'Izzat' factor.Modesty counts but what really hits her hard is the trauma,the phobia of facing the race of people who have ruined her life-MEN
Let me get you a picture of how a victim would feel like
Imagine you go for a swimming trip on the beach..a shark bites your limbs off and you are half dead.Would you ever have the balls to step in the water fearlessly ever in your life again..If you have Iron balls you would..But NO is the answer for most of us.
So thats the case of a victim too..She has to interact with many men in her lives.She would encounter many men in her life and she would be reminded of her predicament every time she meets a new man.She is so much exposed to men all her life.No place to feel safe.
Its just like about how a few rabbits would feel if thrown in a cage of lions.
They might as well kill themselves than being devoured by the lions.
Minor rape victims are thus more prone to depression than elder ones.
There are many initiatives taken to save the environment,to grow trees,to help the poor and noble stuff like that.
But I doubt whether there are NGOs or moments which work in favor of stopping rape.
Yes..there are relief NGOs for victims..but sadly no means of stopping these thirsty souls.
I say there should be a Mace spray moment.Something which women can feel safe about.
Everyone should have one for self defense and possible escape from rapists..Leave aside the cons of the idea.What really matters are lives are saved.
This way desperate men would think twice before doing what they are thinking of.
Even an attempt would mean strict trial and a fixed judgement for every such inferior being.
I know it wont materialize as even certain famous men we look up to have themseleves cherished thoughts of trying to get sex from a prospective victim.
And there is not much I can do either..
Just write
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